Ray Gary Sweeting

April 27, 1952 ~ May 26, 2023
Born in:
Miami, Florida
Resided in:
Lawrenceville, Georgia
Gary began his new adventure on May 26, 2023 after a very brief illness.
Gary was a very private person and very shy. If you were invited into his life, either as a friend or as a co-worker, you were important to him. He was an avid gardener, enjoyed traveling, and was a true Sci-Fi geek.
Gary was survived by his husband, Robert Roddy, and they enjoyed 26 unforgettable and happy years together.
As was Gary’s compassionate and loving way, he would appreciate any donations to the American Cancer Society or to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.
A beloved uncle who was more like a father figure, mentor and a constant friend. I am fortunate he was there for me growing up and I am fortunate to have his soul mate and partner as part of our family. Thank you for letting me be there when you started the next adventure.
I met Gary about ten years ago on a visit to Georgia. Robert and he invited my son and I over for the weekend. They were such gracious host full of entertainment and loving conversations. Gary and Robert made a huge lasagna for dinner. My nine year old wasn’t Interested, nah, not gonna eat, he said. Most wouldn’t blink at a child’s behavior and just ignore them. Not Gary, he quietly went out and brought him a cheese pizza. That my son liked and we enjoyed a beautiful dinner.
There are more significant attributes than a simple act of kindness to Gary. But in the small amount of time I got to know him, I got to really know him. A kind and gentle person. Soft spoke but sincere and always smiling.
My heart goes out to Robert and Gary’s entire family, for he was a beautiful human.
Absence will never break the family bond. RIP Gary.
Jan, Ron, Noah Sweeting